For those of you who haven't read it yet, the general idea is that as humans, we are created to live in a story. Our lives are stories-- with exciting parts that would look amazing on the big screen with a swelling soundtrack along with moments that are so mundane they'd never make the Hollywood cut.
Some people are living amazing stories, but most are just living mediocre ones. Spoiler alert: you can change your story. The ending isn't finalized (well, other than that whole we can't live forever, so yes, everyone's story eventually ends in death-- not to be morbid though).
We've been living a pretty good story lately. One Ordinary Dad and I spent some time in California sans kids.
And so while yearly vacations, monthly date nights, and other events that take a little more money or time will remain on our calendar and as parts of our story, there are small things happening too:
- we say "I love you" a lot more and raise our voices a lot less (hard to do with little ones, but worth the effort)
- we turn off the TV (and Candy Crush-- I was addicted for a bit) and get lost in books and magazines
- we play with Legos and we play lots of games and we put together lots of puzzles (One Ordinary Dad and I occasionally stay up late on a weekend with some wine and a 1000-piecer)
- we have more impromptu dance parties
- we say "yes" to going to the park or going for a walk/hike or going to get ice cream-- even when it's not quite what we want to do
- we choose to be generous without judging-- whether it's a dollar to the pan handler at the highway exit or volunteering our time to help others or teaching our kids how to sort out toys they don't play with anymore so that they can give them away
- we don't count things-- hours of sleep, calories, number of times we've read the same book over and over again, who did the dishes last, who cleaned the toilet last, who made all of the beds last, number of loads of laundry, pounds on a scale, etc.
- we do count blessings though-- every night we name them with the kids before bed
Changing directions in our story's "draft" if you will, has been a blessing for our little family. We're so thankful that God gives us the grace to change our story, to live a better one.
~One Ordinary Mom